When you are working on getting your ex back, there are a few more things you absolutely SHOULD NOT do.
If you want to get back together with your ex, never:
Go out on a date with someone else. Besides making you look cheap, this can also make your ex believe you have moved on. At that point, getting him or her back is nearly impossible.
Fight or fly into a rage. This will practically guarantee no chance of getting back with your ex. Screaming, ranting and raving will only drive your loved one further away, and will not accomplish a thing. When you talk about your problems, act like an adult and discuss things in a calm, caring way.
Proving to your ex that you are willing to talk about your problems in a responsible way will help him or her to see that you are serious about your relationship. To get past what split you up in the first place, there may need to be some changes made on both sides.
Getting your ex back isn't impossible. In fact, it's really not that hard at all if you use the right methods and really put effort into making up!
Monday, October 27, 2008
Sunday, October 26, 2008
When I Lost My Ex
When my ex boyfriend broke up with me two weeks before our wedding, I was devastated to say the least. Depressed wasn't even the word for what I felt! I didn't want to eat, didn't want to leave the house, didn't really care about anything.
For the first week or so the only time I did leave the house was to go check up on my ex. I went to his apartment and walked right in as I always had. This didn't go over well at all. I constantly tried to find out where he was, what he was doing, and who he was doing it with. I wanted my ex back, and I was desperate. Desperate is not a good thing - men don't like it and it won't work.
Finally, even though going out was the last thing on earth I wanted to do, I started going out with friends and trying to live normally. If you have suffered through this, you know how hard it is. I was miserable. But I put on a good front. Eventually I really did start enjoying myself, though I still wanted my ex back.
Months later, after trying to hide my desperation and act like I had a life I loved, my ex called me! He said breaking up with me was the worst thing he had ever done. I was beyond belief - I had my ex back! That was the happiest day of my life.
For the first week or so the only time I did leave the house was to go check up on my ex. I went to his apartment and walked right in as I always had. This didn't go over well at all. I constantly tried to find out where he was, what he was doing, and who he was doing it with. I wanted my ex back, and I was desperate. Desperate is not a good thing - men don't like it and it won't work.
Finally, even though going out was the last thing on earth I wanted to do, I started going out with friends and trying to live normally. If you have suffered through this, you know how hard it is. I was miserable. But I put on a good front. Eventually I really did start enjoying myself, though I still wanted my ex back.
Months later, after trying to hide my desperation and act like I had a life I loved, my ex called me! He said breaking up with me was the worst thing he had ever done. I was beyond belief - I had my ex back! That was the happiest day of my life.
Saturday, October 25, 2008
Want Your Ex Back?
Everyone has experienced a break up in their life. It can be heartbreaking, and you may even suffer severe depression. If you truly want your ex back, there are some things you can do to make it happen! Don't give up - 90% of relationships can be saved. Here are some tips to help you get your ex back:
1. Don't act needy. This is one of the worst things you can do! Acting desperate will only drive your ex farther away. It's hard to act non-chalant, but try. Let your ex see that you are okay by yourself.
2. Don't try to make your ex jealous. SO many people try this tactic, and it simply doesn't work. They will see right through what you are doing, and this will make the situation worse.
3. Try to set up a meeting to discuss things. Acting like a responsible adult is one of the best things you can do to get your ex back. Don't act childish, get angry, or act foolish because your ex doesn't agree with you on everything. Show them that you really care and want to straighten things out.
With a little planning and common sense, you can get your ex back! It's not rocket science, but there are a few little secrets to making it work. For the best information that has PROVEN to reunite 90% of couples, read this book . . . it will absolutely save your relationship.
1. Don't act needy. This is one of the worst things you can do! Acting desperate will only drive your ex farther away. It's hard to act non-chalant, but try. Let your ex see that you are okay by yourself.
2. Don't try to make your ex jealous. SO many people try this tactic, and it simply doesn't work. They will see right through what you are doing, and this will make the situation worse.
3. Try to set up a meeting to discuss things. Acting like a responsible adult is one of the best things you can do to get your ex back. Don't act childish, get angry, or act foolish because your ex doesn't agree with you on everything. Show them that you really care and want to straighten things out.
With a little planning and common sense, you can get your ex back! It's not rocket science, but there are a few little secrets to making it work. For the best information that has PROVEN to reunite 90% of couples, read this book . . . it will absolutely save your relationship.
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